The Philadelphia Auto Show is here again. Todd never missed this, which was to him, an exciting event. I can remember trying to be the good wife and take the little ones to accompany him to these shows. Todd had a way of making the day exciting, even if it was just to look at cars, lots and lots of cars. As the years went on, Todd could tell (I don't know how) I didn't enjoy them, so he made the day a special time to take the boys. They loved it.
The first year Todd wasn't here, a friend took the boys. The boys hated it. They said it wasn't the same without Dad. Last year I totally ignored the event. Now this year will be the third time coming, and I don't know what to do. The boys are quiet on the topic, because they know the emotional drama it will cause me. Do I offer to pay for their tickets? Escort them? Make it a "family outing?" I don't know. I'll probably just ignore it.
When it came time to "design" Todd's marker for the cemetery, I was lost. Nathan came up with a great idea and helped me with the design. I must say, he did a great job.
It's still so difficult for me to look at, but the kids always start talking about Dad and how much he loved cars when we're at the cemetery. Good job, Nate!
2 comments:
What a special thing- for your son to help with something so big and important. Just ask the boys what they would like. Understanding it will never be the same, but knowing what they really would like to do can make a big difference.
I agree with Mel's mom. I was thinking that same thing, about Nathan and the boys/car show.
Hey, I had typed up a post to your "A Good Day!" post and lost it in cyberspace. Sure seems to be happening a lot to me lately! I am so glad that the Lord is drawing you to Himself and helping you not only get through a day without Todd, but He is giving you good days!
May He continue to bless and keep you, and may you feel His presence and love!
Love in Him,
Beth
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